Guilt
Shows a sense of guilt after accepting the parents of the fact cancer of the Child, and is one of the reactions and feelings common and normal, and stems from the belief that the injury of their child due to mistakes or omissions, and feel they have failed to protect him, and wondering what might they have done or not done and contributed to the emergence of cancer, or have serious misgivings that the whole thing comes as a sanction for their sins and their sins, and may fear the mothers from the premise that the cancer originated as a result of something they did or Okhton out during pregnancy, or that it is the result of the presence of genes dysfunctional in one of the parents, and highlights the many questions such as: How did we prevent this? What have we done wrong? How we did not notice the symptoms? How early did not bring him to the doctor? How we missed that blood tests early? Do you inherited this from us?, And focused a lot and are anxious at the ways Maagathm previous child, or vaccines, and vaccines addressed or not addressed, and may worsen the feeling of guilt, while blaming the parents themselves to the delay in noticing the symptoms or lack of interest is sufficient or not to consult doctors specialists from the outset, and make great efforts to understand the cause for their child with cancer, wondering in particular about the style of living or the subject of housing, water resources or environmental pollution, their region, or their business and their jobs or their habits personal (such as smoking), and the fact that the sense of guilt's mind all parents are or another, and natural that one seeks to know the causes behind any problem it faces, and it may be difficult to understand the fact that it is not explained, and important issue in this regard to know the people, that somehow reached by modern science, it does not thing about what they did or did not do caused their child to cancer, and scientists can not confirm any specific reason for the emergence of cancer in children, is also required for the people that do not allow the guilt to dissipate their efforts in addressing child and impede their many tasks before them.
And blame the parents themselves and their doctor always delayed diagnosis, and they want to and strongly know when starting cancer, however, and already there is no definitive answer, and the onset may be rapid or gradual, and similar early symptoms of many of the tumors with the symptoms of common diseases of children, and early diagnosis is sometimes difficult even for physicians, and medical evidence confirms that it significantly in most cases of childhood cancer, the success of treatment depends on the type of tumor and treatment appropriate to the first than on the time of diagnosis.
And thus help to relieve feelings of guilt:
Talk openly with doctors about feeling guilty, who in turn provide clear answers to remove such a feeling.
Find information on the reasons for the emergence of cancer in general.
Talk with parents of other patients.
Accept the fact that there may be no clear answer, and explicit about what caused the emergence of cancer in children.
